Personal Coaching with THE Relationship Miracle Worker
Merle M Singer is THE Relationship Miracle Worker. Working primarily with women who have relationship problems and are unhappy, Merle helps them move beyond the blame to transform their relationship to a more healthy relationship– and bring more happiness into their lives! Most importantly Merle’s techniques and marriage advice are designed to work – without their partner participating or even knowing!
Coaching is a very personal conversation. It’s not for everyone. It requires a great amount of bravery and trust. While that seems overwhelming, it doesn’t have to be. Bravery and trust most often happen in increments. You make a safe statement and see what the coach says. And bit by bit, interaction by interaction trust is built. It’s good practice too. It’s the same process you use with your fellow workers at work and more importantly when searching for a soul mate and
maintaining that relationship. Is this something that you are ready for? Are you brave? Are you brave enough to try? Do you trust? Do you trust enough call? This could work out great for you.
May I tell you about one client of mine that was very unhappy and very guarded?
I met Janey socially, and after a long while, she made an appointment with me. Our sessions were more about how people behave generally ,than about her specific relationships. Her husband, though quietly charming socially, could be a bit overwhelming at home. That played to her insecurities. Jane was not happy. Of all my clients she has been the most guarded. Some time after our sessions ended, I asked her for a recommendation. I was curious to see what she would say. “Merle, please know that of all the reading I have done about being the daughter of a narcissistic mother, your affirmations continue to help me every day.” There was more, but that’s the gist. It was very humbling.
Coaching, either individually or in a group, is a two way street. It’s not just about absorbing information, it’s about taking action.
Yikes; that’s the scary part. But it’s the part I like best.
When a client/student listens carefully to what I say, ‘gets it’ and uses it. For instance, Stella was really starting to make strides as a physical therapist. She had a professor that was mentoring her and her clientele was expanding, simply from word of mouth. Stella was a workaholic, but not so much that she couldn’t pursue her passion for surfing. She was ready to share her life. Stella took the course Single Successful and Seeking led by myself and Patti Negri, psychic medium, and did all our exercises diligently. She used the post-it notes to call out all her shortcomings. And she participated in our ritual to cremate all negativity she felt around herself. After all, you need to believe in yourself to believe in the person you will choose as a partner. There were other exercises and rituals as well to bring in and accentuate the positive vibes we all need to withstand rejection and trust our own judgment to move forward and find the right one. Stella participated full on, and she took action. It took a couple of tries before she found him. Then she had to be patient and check out their connection. Stella found her man online. He’s an accountant. He never surfed in his life, but he does now. They are a perfect balance—Imperfect people (we are all imperfect) imperfect balance. Coaching or classes. Trust yourself to learn and then take action. We are here to help.
Claire came to me divorced twice and meeting interesting men, that just weren’t really a match. She got tired of trying to fit a square peg in a round hole (if you will pardon the expression). Nice was not good enough. She wanted a life-long connection.
Claire was a talent agent with a job on the side. She was doing well. She had good control of her money, and she had already worked through the issues that most of us accumulate on our way through life. She was ready, but what was she ready for. We talked a good bit about it and Claire formulated a very clear picture of what and who she wanted. She had written down all that she wanted and all the deal breakers. What was wonderfully effective about her lists was that it included the kind of life she wanted to life. He needed to be bi lingual. He had to have a thirst for travel expressed the life she wanted to lead. He needed also to be tall, dark and handsome (by her standards) and he had to be a “good guy.” She got everything and more. Stella married at 40, not expecting or even yearning for children. But their relationship clicked so well and he was ready, so voila, TinaMaria was born. It’s 7 years later. It’s a perfect marriage. They even argue, but they know how to make up. Coaching or classes, it helps to have a coach to guide and support you.
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